My Key Words in Life

Even now that I am still young and have a lot to learn in life, I can say that these are my key words in life or let's say survival key words that helped me through the years till now. Words that help me extract sense into a situation to better resolve a problem and eventually reach a common goal.(But let me tell you now that I do these most when I'm logical and practical rather than too sensitive and emotional,Trust me you can't think clearly if your in that state.)

So to further elaborate why I chose these words: *OBSERVE - Some, I'm not saying everyone, disregard the importance of observation this is kinda' the "master key" to anything that will open the door to the other keys. In life you have to observe how things are and why they are like that. There are always reasons behind each personality or situation so as much as possible OBSERVE WITHOUT JUDGEMENT. Judging will only lead to false accusations that will lead to further confusing and sometimes violent stuff. So OBSERVE with an open mind. Disregard everything that you know and start blank as much as possible. *UNDERSTAND -so now that you've observed (ok I forgot to mention that this also kinda a step by step thing sorry) again try to UNDERSTAND WITH AN OPEN MIND AND AND OPEN HEART. Let us remind ourselves that each of us deal with our situations in life differently and not all of us make the most wise decisions. So you can't really know the exact feeling of the person or why it is the way it is.The only thing you can do is try to understand it as much as you can that is if you realy want to though. *COMMUNICATE -communication opens better understanding to situations. This is where you'll get some of the answers that lurk into your mind but trust me you can't always get the answers especially the "answers that you want to hear" so chill. There is no harm in asking, so don't be afraid of it. You just can't let it be without understanding it. (most especially if this is work related. IF YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND, ASK, COMMUNICATE) *STRATEGIZE -now that you finally get some answers, sum up the first three words/steps, evaluate and assess and try to come up with a plan on how you are going to resolve the problem or plan your next move. If you want to take a risk or play it safe.Take note: "win-win situations don't always come that often" and when you "made up your mind you don't want to think it over" (hahaha got that from adele) move to the next step Decisions aren't always easy to make, you often get confuse on what you think is best and what you think is right. By the end of the day you still have to choose. Don't give excuses that you don't have any cause there is always a choice you most likely choose the easier or the more beneficial way(wheather its to you or others) And because things don't always go the way you planned it to MAKE BACK-UP PLANS (B-Z if you can) *ACT - Do what you have to do. Do what YOU have decided to do. Nobody can't stop you from what you really want, if you really WANT IT THAT BAD" just be ready for the results. If they don't go the way you want it to atleast you'll have plans A-Z in mind. "LIKE MATH, YOU HAVE TO DO A LOT OF TRIAL AND ERRORS TO GET THE BEST SOLUTION AND THE BEST ANSWER THAT YOU CAN COME UP WITH" "IN LIFE also LIKE MATH PROBLEMS THERE ARE EASY PROBLEMS AND THE MOST DIFFICULT ONES"

This is only my point of view ok? I'm not saying you have to do it hahaha. How bout you? What are you key words in life ? #keywordsinlife #realizations